Thursday, November 27, 2008
much to be thankful for...
Today was a not so typical thanksgiving for us. We went to a real southern type restaurant tonight to have turkey, steak, potatoes, greens, corn bread rolls, and sweet potato pie. I was too tired and weak to cook a big meal so I am thankful for a restaurant that was open. We had a great time eating some good food and the best part is I didn't have to clean up!!! I really do need to clean up at the house but I have been taking a break from that because of lack of energy....
but I must get these kids to bed. I just wanted to write a little something tonight because it has been a while since I wrote....we are thankful we are doing well. Thank you for your prayers.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Not me Monday
I am really late on these not me's and that should be a not me in itself...
I am not ever late for anything...I am not ever running behind or out the door late because I always schedule and plan for unexpected happenings...like a dirty diaper, or I can't find my car keys, or an unforgotten purse, or a child who does not understand that the car is outside in the driveway and not in her bedroom or in the backyard, and all the previous situation have not happened to me at all this past week...
I did not have my lil toddler take off her diaper and pajamas several times this past week and lay all night long in her convieniently converted toilet crib, and then she did not greet me in the morning completely unclothed with a smile on her face...
I did not hope, wish, and pray for my husband to take the kids all day Saturday so that I could recover from a stomach virus. I did not pack food, snacks, and drinks and make a list of activities for him to do with the kids in order to keep them busy and gone from the house as the bed and toilet were not continually calling for me...
And...
I did not look at all the exercise equipment we have in our house and think about getting back on the bike or lifting weights or doing some of my pilates dvds on Monday, and then get so busy on Monday that I didn't even think about working out....oh well, maybe not tomorrow I will try again...
Hope you all have a blessed not me Monday!!!
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Hope
I am so thankful I can eat a salad today because... ,let me just say, yesterday any thought of food would not have been good. I spent all day in either the bathroom or the bed with an upset stomach and nauseousness and I couldn't seem to function very well or walk without feeling dizzy. I am grateful that today I can drink water and keep it down and eat mild things like salad, that I mentioned above, and a big mac, french fries, a chocolate milk shake, a donut, an apple, and some really good friendship bread with cream cheese frosting....(hey, I had to make up for the lack of food in my system yesterday).
So anyway I wanted to thank my friend Kristen for watching the kids on Friday. My man, P, and I were suppose to go to see Fiddler on the Roof but the performance was packed out so we couldn't get in. We went to a Mexican Restaurant and ate lots of chips and cheese dip and almost fell asleep in the booth. Today, I went again to try and see the play but the auditorium was packed and they wouldn't let anyone else in...
So I came home and cleaned the house while the kids and daddy were out. It gave me time to reflect on the message today at church. It was about Hope...
The pastor touched on a subject that is not preached about very often, but as believer's losing hope is common. It was something I needed to hear because in reality, I lose hope in my relationship with God, my family, and friends when things aren't going well for me. He said that hope can be a remedy to depression and I believe that to be true because when I am depressed I feel like there is no hope and I just focus on the situation that caused me to be depressed. He also said that hope is the rope of expectation that connects us to the future. It is the capacity to release the joy needed to carry us through and to keep us building. He focused on Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." There are times in our lives where we go through the same old situations that we are trying to fix and we keep going deeper and deeper into the same old pit and we don't see the light at the end of the tunnel. He said that God is working in you to try to bring up the root of the problem and to release it in order for you to advance to the next step. He said to stop looking at the problem or situation that your in and start looking for God in the mix of the problem, because He is in there working it out somehow.
Another thing that he spoke about was that hope is a multi-generational process. It is something that can be passed down to our young ones as we seek to go after the hope that the Lord is calling us to in our lives.
I hope to post the link to hear it online. It was alot better than what I am posting here.
I hope to post some not me's tomorrow. In the meantime, I will hope and prayer for the best in your lives and please continue to remember me in your prayers too!!
P.S. Z asked me tonight, "What is God's favorite verse?" And I said probably all of them and then she said it is probably John 3:16....I'd say that might just be on the top of His list!!!
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
monkey see, monkey do
Sunday, November 9, 2008
A birthday, climbing, and a to do list....
When I think about my mother-in-law I think about how blessed I am to have her in my life. She has been a second mother to me...she is helpful, encouraging, hard-working, and full of life, full of joy. She has been there after each baby, helping me to take care of myself and the older kid(s), and she was there when I had my surgery back in Oct. of 07. I miss you Mary and can't wait to see you again...
Well, we went rock climbing today...it was fun!! The girls (older 2) had a great time. I will try to post pics...I forgot my camera and so I used my camera phone. I am going to figure out how to put my camera phone pics on the computer and hopefully it won't take my half-way computer illiterate self too long to figure out.
P has tomorrow and Tuesday off for Veteran's Day so I will have to go and add to my long list of things for him to do....no, really he just likes to look at all he has to do and then somehow the list gets lost because it has been laying around without anything being scratched off!!! But I am going to make multiple copies of it and put one in each room of the house, on his bed pillow, taped on the bathroom mirror and on the refridgerator, in the refridgerator, etc....we'll see how that works!!!
Love ya!!
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
waiting
Much love to you all....
P.S. Some motherhood quotes:
The joy of motherhood: What a woman experiences when all the children are finally in bed.
-Barbara Johnson
When your work is about love, every day is payday.
Motherhood: If was going to be easy, it never would have started with something called labor.
-Barbara Johnson
Before becoming a mother I had a hundred theories on how to bring up children. Now I have seven children and only one theory: Love them, especially when they least deserve to be loved. -Kate Samperi
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Naps, lack of naps, and ready for bed!!!
This will be a quick post and I hope to write more soon...
This weekend flew by and it is already November...and the election is drawing near. I am not huge into politics and I still am trying to understand how this voting process works (I took naps in my History & Government class in middle school since it was right after lunch, so I missed out!!). But I know how important it is to vote and so I am filling out my absentee ballot as we speak...
I did not get to take advantage of that additional one hour of sleep time because the girls woke up early this morning...
So I must get to bed, but I hope that you all are doing well. Keep praying about this election, I know that God is in control and He knows who it will be....
Much love and prayers to you.
"For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus, to do good works which God prepared in advance for us to do." Eph. 2:10